The truth is that I find Yom Hazikoran (Memorial Day for Fallen Soldiers and Victims of Terrorism) pretty difficult to handle - almost unbearable, sometimes. It's too immediate, too personal. The whole country is silent and permeated with sadness. And I don't feel like writing more about it this year, sorry.
One thing I have learned is not to watch television any time between 8 p.m. on the eve of Memorial Day until nightfall the following day. There's nothing to watch except heartbreaking interviews with grieving families and mini-documentaries, composed mostly of home video footage, about sparkling young people who died just when their lives were starting. Back-to-back, all day long. It's just too much - for me.
Posts about Memorial Day:
Allison
Stephanie
Purple Parrot
One Jerusalem
SomethingSomething
What I wrote last year
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The unbearable heaviness of remembering
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Re: The unbearable heaviness of remembering
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neb
on Tue 02 May 2006 10:44 AM IDT | Profile | Permanent Link
I wish I had seen this warning before I turned on my tv this morning while eating breakfast. I haven't been in Israel on Yom Hazikaron in 22 years. I just had forgotten or didn't know. Now, here I am 3 hours later, a roll of toilet paper gone crumpled up beside me, and just got myself to turn off the tv. I just couldn't take another story. Its heartbreaking.
Re: The unbearable heaviness of remembering
It is depressing, but at the same time, I find it strangely rejuvenating, as people put aside day-to-day life and focus on more important things. I think it's good that we have a day that allows us to take stock of what we have and what we've lost, and how the latter enables the former. Feeling the sorrow of today lets us experience the joy of tomorrow to a far greater degree, I think.
Re: The unbearable heaviness of remembering
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PP
on Tue 02 May 2006 02:42 PM IDT | Permanent Link
And for me- I feel particularly guilty switching off the channel with the neverending roll of names.
Thanks for the link. Re: The unbearable heaviness of remembering
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jfrancis
on Mon 08 May 2006 01:00 AM IDT | Profile | Permanent Link
The Unbearable Heaviness
(of remembering) (Yom Hazikoran) Feeling the sorrow of today lets us experience the joy of tomorrow as our hearts restored turn aside into gardens of memory and with a sense of longing turn the pages of Jewish history back..... back to simpler days of fresher times in Solomon's song. Lisa She jfrancis Trackbacks
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