I'm trying to comment on "get over it" re: 9/11. I'm failing. I have mixed feelings. I'd like to get over it, but I probably never will. I was more personally affected than most Americans (though not as much as some), but I can see how even Joe Schmo from Idaho might still be kind of freaked. I'd like people to shut up and stop talking about it. I've done my grieving and would like to remember it as a historical event now. I just don't know how to do that - I've never really had to before. I'd guess you and some of your readers have some insight on that one.