I can't say I agree with you completely. as some one else mentioned, her video is different than videos of other female singers. I've seen tons of videos in which the heroinne beats the hell out of the cheating husband/boyfriend etc and I have to say that's a bit cliche, though maybe to some people a fun video. even though I probabely wouldn't do the same if I were her, I don't think what she's doing is traditional. Im persian and I understand that traditional women tend to ignore the cheating husband just to keep the peace and quiet of their home. They are afraid of losing their husband because they depend on him financially and because they're afraid of what's going to happen to their children after a divorce/ break up, who's gonna take care of them and/or the children and what will people think of a divorced/single mother. In this video though, you don't see that weakness. there's no sing of dependency or children, and it doesn't seem like Nancys afraid of losing her family or children etc She just simply ignores the fact that her husband is cheating on her with her best friend because she still loves him and she can't bring herself to accept the fact that he is cheating. She cries because she can't take the betrayal, not because she now has to look for a place to sleep in at nights nor because she wonders what people will think. I hope that made sense lol